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Question by amberlisa
Submitted on 9/3/2003
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i am pregnent, with a man who is 45 and i m 38 we have been together 2 yrs im pregnent for the 2 nd time 1st time we had a abortion (I wanted the baby he did'tHe said we were to old, we have seperate childeren from differnt marriges 10- 15-16 of mine,and 19- 20- 26- of his I have a appt to get a a abortion in two days I never told him i was pregnant again and i think I never will am i wrong?

Answer by ben
Submitted on 1/28/2004
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I think this is absurd

Answer by max_force7734
Submitted on 5/5/2004
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There is no need to tell him anything since he made his decision the last time-----hes a selfish bastard.I imagine he had no problem with the making though huh? P.S. Keep the baby if you want to. His opinion means nothing.

Answer by xxlil_chaosxx
Submitted on 10/11/2004
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u need to tell him and i really think u should keep it u have already had one abortion and i kno u had to feel the pain of giving up ur own child u have other children and i imagine u are able to take care of this one why get rid of it when you are the reason its here u must want it so trust me tell him and if u can give it a good life do it!!

Answer by frenchy
Submitted on 7/2/2005
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Go ahead and have the child, my wife and I have had 3 beautiful healthy children in our 40s. age 41,43,and 45. If your pregnant there is a reason and that child has a special mission on this earth. Don't stand in the way.

Answer by nene
Submitted on 7/3/2005
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I don't think it would be wrong to not tell him. Why should u? He didn't want it the first time why would he the second time around. and if u keep it. play like u didn't know you were pregnant. why shouldn't he want a child by you.

Answer by hamid zaman
Submitted on 7/23/2005
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oh please what waste why did you become on the first place plz keep the child

Answer by sepideh
Submitted on 10/21/2005
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by pushing a man's bucket into the girl's back hole,dose it cause to be pregnant? Thank you

Answer by anabel
Submitted on 10/28/2005
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tell him you wunt to have a baby.

Answer by Angel
Submitted on 10/30/2005
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He is an ass and you don't need hm in your live. No man should make you do anything you don't want to. You, your children and your baby are better off on your own!!

Answer by nada
Submitted on 12/3/2005
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dear sir I'm pregnant one month ago and i fell throw out many time a day and i feel headache and want to sleep many time a day and laziness. i take vitamin tab. (materna one a day and three tab. diclectin a day. is that enough now or not and what is the best food now

Answer by ramu
Submitted on 1/10/2006
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what tell

Answer by joker29
Submitted on 1/11/2006
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wow I can't believe this. yeah, kill the baby don't inconvenience yourself... jeez hasn't anyone heard of birth control, common lady? get a clue... better yet get an operation, if you're killing two babies, you shouldn't be capable of having anymore

Answer by me
Submitted on 1/18/2006
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kids are gift from God. Once you missed it you have less chances in you future as you are already 38. hard time after that No chance after 40

Answer by amy
Submitted on 2/16/2006
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I can't believe that you are still with this guy. Why do you think you should tell him that you are pregnent again, you should already know what he is going to say. Save yourself time and tears.Do what your heart tell you to do.

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Answer by hb2ann
Submitted on 4/19/2006
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I think you should tell him and try and figure something out with him because if he loves you he would not even care that you are pregnant. So remember just try to explain to him that you do not want him to be mad at you. But if you want this baby tell him you do.

Answer by nikki
Submitted on 5/23/2006
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you should feel lucky keep it

Answer by salman
Submitted on 6/19/2006
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Answer by savy
Submitted on 9/28/2006
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i think you should find a better method of birth control

Answer by Na Na77345
Submitted on 2/3/2007
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Well you shouldn't really listen to him, I mean your the one that has to go through the pain to get it out I mean it's your choice he is just like selfish like max_force7734 said :) keep it well thats if you want to

Answer by ibmerich
Submitted on 2/19/2007
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Personally I think children at your age leaves you both susceptible to a child with DOWNS SYNDROME. I feel your on the threshold of a delightful experience as grandparents if your not already. If you wish to have an active sex life, I think your man should get a vasectomy! Don't abort your baby. Either keep the baby or put it up for adoption to some less fortunate couple.

Answer by samantha
Submitted on 4/10/2007
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i think you should keep the baby im desperate for a baby i wouldent let enyone tell me what to do and congradulations . if you need eny advice im happy to help samanthalangham@yahoo.co.uk