Hello! I am a 26yr old lesbian and I have a question...

Question by Nemesis
Submitted on 12/26/2005
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Hello! I am a 26yr old lesbian and I have a question regarding a supposedly straight null co worker who has recently exhibited some bisexual behavior, but here is a little background first,.... This woman has known for months now that I am gay and that I am attracted to her,... although I have been extremely careful not to show it. We have played the null cat and mouse games several times and it has always left me curious as to her "real" sexuality. This woman is married and has 2 children. Two weeks ago this woman and I met up at a local bar along with several other co workers for an after hours xmas party. Naturally this woman and I were drinking and as the night progressed I got bold enough to do the "dirty" dance with her and made no attempts to hide how much I desire her. At the end of our last bump n' grind dance of the night she kissed me on the lips (no tongue),... she held the kiss much longer than a "straight" woman should have. When we left the bar my DD offered to take her home. She sat in my lap and we snuggled the whole way. I gently kissed her cheek and softly stroked her hands and she seemed completely comfortable with it all! A few days later when I saw her at work we laughed about what null and again she seemed kewl and null enough, didn't blame her behavior on the alcohol and she remembered everything. So what appeared to be ok has taken an interesting turn. Like a day later I was confronted by another lesbian who also knows and works with this woman and she was also at the bar that night, was telling me that I couldn't have picked a more straight woman to get friendly with and so on. And since that little confrontation the supposedly straight woman that I like has put me on invisible mode and hasn't so much as said boo to me. It seems like she has almost made a point to avoid me. :( I can't figure out if this woman is bisexual, bi-curious, straight, simply playing me, acting "normal" for the sake of work, or what?!! One thing I do know is that alcohol lets more truth out of the closet than it does fiction! LOL HELP!!!! Nemesis

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