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Question by Cat
Submitted on 1/14/2004
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I thought a guy at work liked me - he seemed to be giving out all the 'right' signals (the differences in his interaction between others and with me). However, when I got the courage up to ask him out (alas with all the finesse of a 13 year old), I was met with a lame excuse and no indication of a future possibility. My question is: should I just forget about him, or (and this is my preferred option), give it a little while, then casually ask him out again?

Answer by laura
Submitted on 11/24/2004
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i think you should maybe forget about him...theres plenty more fish in the sea. I know its not what you want to hear, but the thing is guys like that dont deserve to be gone after by women. if hes interested he will ask you out, because now you have asked him out once it may give him some sort of indication.

Answer by samehere
Submitted on 11/28/2004
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ignore him. he might come around if he like you.

Answer by Lauren
Submitted on 8/18/2005
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A terrible idea. If the guy turned you down the first time, there was a reason for it. And if he changes his mind, or the "reason" was temporary, he now knows you are interested and will ask you out himself.

Answer by Jack the theif
Submitted on 11/2/2005
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Hi there, I would say go for it again, but try to find out if he is the kind of guy that will be intimidated by you or if he is genuinely not interested in you..

Answer by esmy
Submitted on 11/17/2005
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i think this guy wan just a jerk, and if i were you i try to forget about and keep your distance and try to think about someone else. I know what you've been through 'cuz the same thing happened ot me this summer so just keep ur distance and try to be positive about things and life. LOVE YA AND GOOD LUCK!!

Answer by Breaktherules
Submitted on 1/15/2007
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Don't grovel hun. Don't stoop that low, and ask him again. He doesn't want you, face facts and be kind to yourself. Find someone who has respect for you. Remember its that guy who is the looser for leading you on, not you for wanting him. Laura x

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