Top Document: alt.polyamory Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) Previous Document: 5). What about jealousy? Next Document: 7). How do you decide who sleeps where when? See reader questions & answers on this topic! - Help others by sharing your knowledge Nobody has a trademark on How It's Done, if that's what you mean. The best anyone can do is tell how it works for them, and as with most other things, YMMV. (That means "Your Mileage May Vary.") Some people have "rules of thumb". Joe and Kat: "Your needs come first. We'll talk about everything. What they said." Elise: "Since a certain 'learning experience' I have felt strongly that I should never allow my relationship with a new person to be a tool used to avoid dealing with a 'broken' other relationship. In fact, one of the things I am most careful about is 'emotional spillover'; I have a policy of not spending intense time with otherloves when there is something out of balance with one love. Naturally this tends to speed up the opening of negotiations about the difficulty. ;-) I think it's unfair to my loves to use the time I spend with them as a palliative when there's trouble elsewhere; it keeps me from doing the work I need to do, the work I agreed to do when I took on the reality of the relationship." If you want rules of thumb, you get to make them up yourself. No warranty expressed or implied, and keep checking the instrument panel throughout your flight. User Contributions:Top Document: alt.polyamory Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) Previous Document: 5). What about jealousy? Next Document: 7). How do you decide who sleeps where when? Single Page [ Usenet FAQs | Web FAQs | Documents | RFC Index ] Send corrections/additions to the FAQ Maintainer: elise@mango.gofast.net (Elise Matthesen)
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